Welcome! I'm Darrah.
I'm a photographer, a dreamer, a vanilla latte drinker. This is where I share the ups and downs of living a creative life, bits of inspiration, and photos from recent shoots.
This is a Slice of My Life.
Read more about me.

This work is licensed under a Creative Commons License. All words and photos are mine unless otherwise noted. If you would like to use a photo on your website, please contact me first and give credit to
Darrah Parker Photography.

Wednesday
Jul282010

one year :: one family {june}

In this year-long project, I visit one family once a month and photograph whatever it is they are doing that day. There's no staging and very little planning ahead. We just pick a day each month and I show up with my camera. My goal is to to photograph real "slices of life" in an effort to find the beauty in the ordinary and the extraordinary in our own everyday lives.

In June, I dropped by the family's house on a quintessential summer day. The kids were on their summer vacation, gearing up for camp, and perhaps a little bored. Mom was pruning her garden which was finally flourishing and Pushkin, the dog, was soaking up all the sunshine and attention he could get.

It's hard to believe we're already half-way through this year-long project. It's been so rewarding seeing this project come to fruition. But what has been even more rewarding is getting to know this lovely family, watching the seasons change and the kids grow from month to month, and being able to document it with my camera. It is truly an honor. I can't wait to see what the next six months has in store!

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You can view more photos from my June visit with the family plus photos from the previous months in the one year :: one family gallery or check out these blog posts to read the story behind the photos:

January

February

March

April

May

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I am a portrait, family, and "slice of life" photographer. I'd love to photograph you!
For more information about my services, click here.

Tuesday
Jul272010

slice of life tuesday :: the shutter sisters edition

I've been keeping an exciting secret to myself for a while now and I'm so thrilled that I get to share this news with you today! A while back, Tracey Clark of Shutter Sisters asked if I'd like to do a guest post and, of course, I agreed immediately. I tried to contain myself when I replied to her initial email, hoping I wouldn't sound like a total dork, but I have a feeling it might have been obvious to Tracey that I was jumping up and down with excitement. You see, I've been a daily reader of Shutter Sisters since I started blogging...really since before I started calling myself a photographer. Shutter Sisters is an amazing community of women who come together for the love of photography. They share stories, offer ideas, and provide a daily dose of creative inspiration. It is truly an honor and one of the highlights of the last year and a half of blogging to be an "Honorary Sister" today.

This week, we're having a Slice of Life Tuesday visual potluck. I'm going to ask you to pop over to my Shutter Sisters post to see what we've cooked up!

Slice of Life Tuesday is a weekly feature in which I provide a little inspiration and a gentle nudge, encouraging you to find the beauty in everyday life. You are invited to share your Slice of Life photos on your blog or join the Slice of Life Tuesday Flickr Group. Slice of Life Tuesday is for everyone! You are not required to be a 'professional' photographer. You are only required to be you.

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Throughout the month of July, I am giving $5 of every photo I sell to Gulf Coast relief.
Visit my Etsy shop to make a purchase.
To learn more about where your money will go or to share how YOU are helping, click here.

Wednesday
Jul212010

preparation, collaboration, improvisation 

The more I photograph people, the more I realize that a lot of folks have anxiety associated with having their pictures taken. Some people are shy. Some people don't like to be the center of attention. Some people worry about where to put their hands or that they're going to look like a dork. Some people had a bad experience with a photographer once and ended up with photos that didn't look like themselves.

When it comes down to it, I think it all boils down to not knowing what to expect. I always sit down with my clients and talk through what to expect to put their minds at ease, but I thought, why wait? I want to put your minds at ease now - even before you hire me! I don't want your reason for not hiring me to be nerves, so let's just nip that in the bud right now!

The way I approach a photo session involves three elements: preparation, collaboration, and improvisation. I think this goes back to my theatre days when I would rehearse for a play for months, memorize my lines, collaborate with the director and other actors, and on opening night, I opened myself up to whatever happened in the moment. I learned that sometimes, the most amazing moments can't be planned. Luckily, I am trained to notice them when they arise.

So in order to explain my process and what to expect, I've broken it down into the three elements. Now, keep in mind, your session will be tailored to you and your unique needs. But this is my general approach to most sessions.

PREPARATION

First, we will meet to get to know each other and see if we are a good match. We're going to be spending a couple of hours of quality time together and I want to make sure that we are comfortable around each other. Comfort level is so important when it comes to portrait/family photography.

We'll also discuss why you want photographs. Perhaps you want baby or family photos or headshots or publicity photos for your band. Or maybe you want some pretty photos to post on your online dating profile! I want to know your goals, so that I can help you achieve them. The lovely lady in this post wanted professional headshots, but she also wanted fun photos of herself, just being...well...herself!

COLLABORATION

A successful photo session will involve a collaboration between me, you, and my camera. And the way to achieve that is through communication. During our initial meeting, we'll chat about your style, what makes you tick, and how you like to spend your time. I may ask you some funny questions, but it's all on a quest to "get" you. And the more I "get" you, the more the photos will "get" you. Get it?

Before the shoot, I'll be in touch with you to decide on a photo location and talk about what to wear that day. I want you to feel most like yourself and more importantly, I want you to be able to look in the mirror and say, "Damn...I look goooood!"

IMPROVISATION

Here comes the fun part! This is when all of the preparation and collaboration pays off. Yes, I want you to have amazing photos when all is said and done, but I also want you to have a great experience getting the photos taken.

On the day of our photo session, we will ease into taking photos. I want you to feel relaxed and comfortable. It will be your job to just be yourself and it will be my job to capture your personality. If you're nervous, I have a few tricks up my sleeve to get you to relax. Most of my "tricks" involve  laughter or me acting like a dork. There. Now you know my tricks.

As I'm taking photos, we will chat. It will be like we're hanging out, except I'll have a giant camera with me.  But before you know it, you'll forget about the giant camera and realize that the camera is just an extension of me.

Every once in a while, I will ask you to move to a certain spot, lift your head, move your eyes, etc. And then we will return to talking, and I'll keep snapping away. This approach will give you a nice mix of candid and posed shots. And it also means that the posed photos will appear spontaneous and not too stiff.

The bottom line is you will walk away with amazing photos. But it will be so much more than that. As one of my clients said about her session, it was "half pure luxury and half wondrous investment in myself." I mean, how often do you get an opportunity to do something like this for yourself? So I want you to enjoy it! I want you to be able to look at your photos for years to come and think back on that day fondly. Besides, the more you relax and enjoy the experience, the better the photos will be!

Now, I want to hear from you! Tell me about your best photo session experiences and what made them enjoyable. Tell me what makes you nervous about being in front of a camera. And let me know if you have any other questions about my process or what to expect from a photo session. The more I hear from you, the better I will be able to serve you.

And if you're ready to hire me, hop over to my services page for all the details or email me. I want to help you get the photos you've always dreamed of. I can't wait to collaborate with you!

Tuesday
Jul202010

slice of life tuesday :: the rejects

"Sometimes the only thing to do is to start looking at everything again
until you forget what you're supposed to see and actually see what's there."

~ Story People (via Kylie)

I just uncovered this photo that I took a while ago. I never paid much attention to it because I thought it wasn't "technically" great. I hadn't adjusted my shutter speed properly, so the photo was blown out and a little blurry. So I tucked it away and put it in the reject pile. But when I discovered it today, my heart skipped a beat. Who cares about my shutter speed? It's the emotion behind it that matters, right?!

This week, dig into your archives and share your reject photos. Take a look at your photos with fresh eyes and uncover the ones that really are beautiful, despite the judgment you placed on them. Allow those rejects to see the light of day!

Slice of Life Tuesday is a weekly feature in which I provide a little inspiration and a gentle nudge, encouraging you to find the beauty in everyday life. You are invited to share your Slice of Life photos on your blog or join the Slice of Life Tuesday Flickr Group. Slice of Life Tuesday is for everyone! You are not required to be a 'professional' photographer. You are only required to be you.

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Throughout the month of July, I am giving $5 of every photo I sell to Gulf Coast relief.
Visit my Etsy shop to make a purchase.
To learn more about where your money will go or to share how YOU are helping, click here.

Sunday
Jul182010

looking through the lens with love

I just discovered this video that took my breath away. I have been admiring Jen Lemen from afar, visiting her website and following her tweets. I knew that she and Stephanie Roberts were awarded $50,000 to travel the world to take pictures of their dream assignment. I have followed Jen's journey, but I don't think I fully grasped what this project was about until I saw this video. More than that, this video reminded me why I love photography and why I love taking photos. It's not about the camera or the technical know-how or getting it just right. It is about the love. It's about opening yourself to the person you are photographing so that they will open themselves up to you. It's about letting go and uncovering the beauty in the moment. It's about "seeing and being seen with our hearts wide open."

Please watch this video. I've already watched it three times this morning and am bookmarking it to return to whenever I need a reminder of what's important and why photography matters.

Friday
Jul162010

across mediums :: an interview with kate swoboda

Her name is Kate Swoboda and she's pretty freaking amazing. I know her as "katecourageous", as that is her Twitter name. With a name like "katecourageous", I'm convinced she's a superhero. I suppose she is a superhero, of sorts. Her superpower: inspiring courage, creativity, and kick-ass-ity. (I made that word up, but I think I'm adding it to my vocabulary.)  

Kate is the brain/heart behind Your Courageous Life. She spends her days encouraging people to live courageously, fully, creatively, and joyfully. I've been following Kate's journey for quite a while and really connected with her when she started working for herself very shortly after I started working for myself. It was nice to read her blog posts as she settled into this new life and to know that someone else out there was experiencing very similar things.

When she approached me several months ago to be interviewed for her upcoming e-book, Across Mediums, I was so flattered. She created this e-book to help light a creative spark under people and wanted to interview artists about their creative process, how they get inspired, and stay motivated. She must have known I had some opinions on such matters!

Here is a snippet of the interview Kate did with me. If you'd like to hear the rest of the interview, you'll have to purchase the e-book (which is chock full of other interviews, by the way, as well as videos, and "sassy-yet-simple exercises to get you inspired, break you out of a creative rut, and get your hands moving across several different artistic mediums.") It sounds delicious, doesn't it? I can attest that it is, indeed, delicious.

A Short Bit with Darrah Parker from Kate Swoboda on Vimeo.

After Kate interviewed me, I asked her if she would let me interview her, and thankfully, she agreed! I wanted to find out what inspires her, what makes her tick, and how SHE stays motivated. I absolutely love her answers to my questions. If you're anything like me, you'll be nodding your head in agreement as you read.

What inspired you to create your new e-book, Across Mediums?

A few years ago, I was wandering around my favorite museum, the San Francisco Museum of Modern Art. They had this great exhibit on mixed-media artist Joseph Cornell. These glass display cases were part of the exhibit, in which they showed all of the pre-planning he did--there were accordion file folders spilling open with things he'd torn from magazines, sketches, type, things he collected, notes he made. I'd always been somewhat of a shadow artist, always thinking that "real artists" knew what they were doing and just sat down to create it, perhaps after one or two practice sketches. But Cornell showed me that there was all of this pre-planning that could go into it. Another belief I carried at the time was that tired old cliche, "Jack of all trades, master of none." I had a strong inner critic that said I should stop trying to experiment in photography, writing, painting, sketching, clay, etc., and "just settle on one thing." But some synapses connected that night and I realized that I could create a system for myself of creating that went, literally, "across mediums." So I created the course for myself originally, and it also evolved into focusing on PROCESS, not a final PRODUCT. Now, all these years later, I turned it into a course that I share with others--first, as an e-course, and now as a downloadable course module complete with an e-book, exercises, videos, and--I'm so happy to say--interviews with lovely artists like you! ;-)

What do you think makes someone an artist?

I smile as I type this, noticing that in some ways, this can be a loaded question! So I'll share that I don't think my answer is "the" answer and that my hope is that people reading this will decide their own answer to this question if my answer doesn't resonate with them. In essence, I tend to mentally separate these into two categories. I think of "creatives" as people who create, in any medium (skill level, training, etc., does not matter). I tend to think of "artists" as people who have decided to create and make it a profession in some way, even if it's not full-time (and no, skill level, training, etc., does not matter here, either). I believe that all of us are creative, and all of us have a unique way of presenting work to the world. I *don't* believe that it's "all been done," before. And I also believe that there's enormous value in simply putting pen to page or brush to canvas or the delicious moment of clicking a shutter button. Making money off of art isn't necessarily better--I've done that, and found that it wasn't a match for me to do all of the things that went into shows and selling my artwork. What's important is creating. I love the quote by Rita Mae Brown: "Creativity comes from trust. Trust your instincts. And never hope more than you work." 

What is your favorite thing to create?

Love. And after that: writing that cuts to the heart of a matter in such a way that something really honest and true resonates.

How do you feel when you are creating, playing, and exploring?

I notice that when I'm really in a groove, time just slides right on by. That sense of present moment focus is the most amazing, fulfilling thing I know. My favorite place to write is the local free library, and sometimes after a great writing session I'll look up and feel a little nuts, because I'm sitting there with this energetic rush that barely has me in my seat--I want to walk up to someone like a total goober and gush, "Isn't life amazing? Isn't it amazing that we exist?" because I feel so jazzed--and of course I'm aware that if I did that, I'd seem, you know...nuts. So I don't. But it's still a really amazing feeling. Also, one of my favorite headache remedies is to go out with my camera. When I have a stubborn headache, time with my camera seems to solve it.

How do you make time for creating, playing, and exploring in your own life?

Well, here's where I out myself and share that for the first several months of working for myself, I didn't make that time. And it was not good: When I'm not making time for self-care, I lose all sense of perspective. The lie that's so easy to believe is that the to-do list needs to trump the self-care, because the to-do list is "so important." I just finished a monthlong hiatus from working, and I went into that space knowing that I needed to get quiet and evaluate what was off, and this message about self-care came to me, really loud and clear. I feel I've had my genuine "A-ha" moment with it. So the shifts I'm experimenting with in the foreseeable future (I'm always learning; deciding what works and what doesn't) is to get back into my meditation practice, and to schedule time with myself to read each day. To me, these two self-care practices are the ones that create a mental/emotional environment where I'll even go there and THINK of creating--painting, writing fiction, etc. Other than that, I don't have a set schedule for things like sketching, painting, writing. I take them as they come.

Is there anything else you would like to share with us today?

Just a thank you for participating and sharing YOU with an Across Mediums interview! I'm really excited and thankful that you took the time. You inspire me.

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About Kate

Kate Swoboda is a life coach, teacher, and writer living in the San Francisco Bay Area. She supports women from around the world in making powerful choices and rocking out their lives (side note: this involves a lot of courageous laughter, love, acceptance, and not taking ourselves too seriously). When she’s not writing, leading retreats in Italy, or connecting with other courageous women, she can be found sipping chai in libraries, buffing up on her Italian, taking photographs, or getting all bendy-stretchy on the yoga mat. Learn more at http://www.yourcourageouslife.com.

About Across Mediums

Across Mediums is a downloadable e-book course with a lesson-by-lesson format designed to get you to bring out those hoarded art supplies, meet the resistance head-on, let go of the inner critic, and create for the sake of creating. Dive in with just twenty minutes a day to break the old “Story” that you have to quit your day job in order to be an artist. The purpose of the course is not to complete a finished piece–it’s to dive in, get messy, get inspired, break out of a creative rut, try something completely and totally new, and totally detach from the artistic process as a process that can be overwhelmingly perfectionistic. Learn more and order your copy here.

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Throughout the month of July, I am giving $5 of every photo I sell to Gulf Coast relief.
Visit my Etsy shop to make a purchase.
To learn more about where your money will go or to share how YOU are helping, click here.

Tuesday
Jul132010

slice of life tuesday :: summer

Around here, summer doesn't officially hit until July 4. And when it hits, it HITS! But only for a couple of days, because Seattle is fickle and can't ever make up its mind about the weather. Really, Seattle can't make up its mind about a lot of things, but that's a whole other blog post!

For me, nothing is more summery than a trip to the farmers market. Although, we have year-round farmers markets here, the summertime ones are really fun because they are filled with so much color and so much life. Going to the farmers market over the summer reminds me of when I first started taking photos. It was summertime and I had just bought my new fancy camera and everywhere I looked was glorious, colorful eye candy.

When summer officially hit last week, I knew it was time to pull out my new big(ger) fancy(er) camera and give her a spin around the Phinney Farmers Market.

These were the first photos I took with the new camera. Needless to say, I fell madly in love with everything I photographed and even more madly in love with my new best friend.

I was even asked by one of the people running a farm stand if I could photograph her cherries and send her a few. You don't have to ask me twice!

As I oohed and ahhed and snapped away, my very patient husband stood by watching as I got pulled in by the magnetic force of the market. But really, how could I not?! I mean, how could I resist all of that LIFE? All that COLOR? All that BEAUTY? This is what summer is all about. This is what summer looks like to me.

What does summer look like to you? What's your favorite thing about summer? This week, carry your camera around and photograph what summer looks like in your neck of the woods.

Slice of Life Tuesday is a weekly feature in which I provide a little inspiration and a gentle nudge, encouraging you to find the beauty in everyday life. You are invited to share your Slice of Life photos on your blog or join the Slice of Life Tuesday Flickr Group. Slice of Life Tuesday is for everyone! You are not required to be a 'professional' photographer. You are only required to be you.

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I am a portrait, family, and "slice of life" photographer. I'd love to photograph you!
For more information about my services, click here.

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Throughout the month of July, I am giving $5 of every photo I sell to Gulf Coast relief.
Visit my Etsy shop to make a purchase.
To learn more about where your money will go or to share how YOU are helping, click here.